LBHS Advice Column March 2025
The advice column at LBHS aims to establish a sense of community. If you’re looking to submit a question, we encourage you to visit the Google Form by scanning the QR code. The form is easy to fill out and is divided into sections according to the questions you may have. Look for a response to your question in our next issue!
From Issue 1, 2024-2025; Advice & Lifestyle
Updated Apr 7, 2025
Q: Hello there! Now that I’m fourteen years of age, I can start working. While I am looking forward to working a summer job, I have a problem: Where would I go about job searching and finding opportunities as a young student?
A: Hello reader! I am happy to come to your rescue. As you know, all students in Long Beach High School are assigned to a guidance counselor; for information regarding jobs and other opportunities, such as internships, refer to your guidance Google Classroom. Job opportunities will be posted there.
Additionally, there will be a college and job fair at the high school in the Upper Commons on April 9th and April 23rd from 10:15 am to 1:20 pm, so be sure to mark these dates in your calendar. Good luck!
Q: Hey! As a senior who has applied for college, and is receiving responses from colleges, I’ve been feeling bummed out about the rejections I’ve received. How do I cope with rejection?
A: Hello reader! It can be challenging to unlearn the unconscious habit of placing your self worth on the validation of others– in this case, the admission counselors. Validation is something that is out of your control and is not the grounds for self blame. It’s okay to feel sad and disappointed; you should acknowledge your pain. The sooner you allow yourself to feel, that is when you’ll begin to heal and find relief from your emotions.
Through this difficulty, practicing self-care is important. Reach out to someone that can support you, like a parent or friend. This is the best way you can help yourself.
But most importantly, remember that you are responsible for your happiness. Trust that where you were accepted is where you are meant to be. Sometimes, our biggest rejections may be our greatest opportunities; there’s no loss in believing that.
